Safewords — A Review

Why we need safewords and a general review of their uses.

If you have watched any movie with a BDSM theme, you likely know what a safeword is and what it is used for in a scene. As the former owner and publisher of Safeword Magazine, going over what safewords are, how to use them effectively, and basic responsibility should be taught, discussed, and reviewed frequently.

I had a play session yesterday, in which it was necessary to use a safeword, and it reminded me of how important this review can be for others. What? Did you use a safeword? Yes, I did. Even after spending most of my adult life in BDSM relationships, at nearly 54, I still have a need for safewords. Everyone does.

Why Safewords are Necessary

The name implies why they are necessary — for safety. When you scene with a partner, you intend to deliver the most pleasure without injuring anyone. This does not just mean physically, but also emotionally.

Most practitioners of BDSM take safety very seriously. In fact, there are a number of acronyms that are commonly used in the community to denote how important safety and consent are in BDSM play and relationships.