BDSM Dating Over 50 — My View

Lenore T. Rose
11 min readAug 28, 2023
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Dating over 50 is a challenge for everyone. If your search parameters include kink, you might be in for a long road if you want a serious relationship.

That is where I am at. I will be 54 in September and have spent the last few years single after my partner passed away in 2020. My return to the lifestyle scene meant I was in for a few surprises.

It’s Not Easy to Meet Eligible Kinksters

In 2023, you’d think you could dial-a-Dom, right? Nope. Good luck if you are looking for an eligible Dominant or submissive on dating apps. While it is true that there are dating apps geared explicitly toward kinksters, most of them suck. If you are on Adult Friend Finder, it could take you a while.

As a single, older, submissive woman, I find that many men on these dating sites have lost their sense of manners. To them, a dating app is dial-a-pussy.

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A Hook-Up Nation

It seems that with convenience, men and women have fallen prey to the swipe left-swipe right method of finding a sexual partner. If you only want to fuck, you might find this a suitable way to get laid. This time of…

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Lenore T. Rose

Creative spirit. Overworked human. Idea developer. Poet. Artist. Animal rescuer.