PinnedMember-onlyDating in the Lifestyle… AgainDating, in general, can be a fun exploration of yourself and your partners. There are certainly dozens of apps to help us swipe through to the “one” who strikes your fancy. Dating in the lifestyle, though, is an entirely different ballgame. Lifestyle? What is that? Do you mean swingers? It…BDSM9 min readBDSM9 min read
Aug 19, 2022Member-onlyBDSM, Trust, and Colon PerforationsThere are many reasons I chose to write on this subject; a decision made many years ago. One of those reasons was to protect others. For anyone who is involved in the BDSM lifestyle, it has its positives, but there is a very dark side to it. …BDSM8 min readBDSM8 min read
Jul 26, 2022Member-onlyDating in the Lifestyle Over 50 — A Late Summer UpdateI’m sure that someone out there is waiting with bated breath on how my dating life is going… and if you are, you need help. My life is not that interesting. A recap in case you missed it. Dating apps abound, lifestyle refers to BDSM, and some of my previous…BDSM6 min readBDSM6 min read
May 2, 2022Member-onlyWhy Mother’s Day is Awkward for MeAwkward? Weird feeling for Mother’s Day? I have always had a weird, strange feelings about Mother’s Day. Perhaps I should explain. My mother died when I was nearly seven. Six-and-a-half years old, my mother died of suicide. I was too young to understand the whys. The trauma also cost me…Mothers Day3 min readMothers Day3 min read
May 2, 2022Member-onlyHow Political Ideology Has Impacted My Dating LifeI know. How shallow of me. To give a damn about what a guy thinks. So let’s get shaggy, a little nasty, and chill, right? Well, wrong. I’ve realized that I’m not the only one who feels this way. I’ve written recently about how it’s been going dating in the…Dating5 min readDating5 min read
Published in Tuesday Tech and Tacos·Mar 29, 2022Member-onlyBarbacoa Pork Street Tacos — Chipotle StyleWhat is a Barbacoa Taco? A new twist on tacos for me — barbacoa is usually meat cooked until very tender and shredded. It is usually beef or lamb, but pork is also a great option. Barbacoa is a Mexican dish. It often includes vibrant spices like chilis and garlic…Barbacoa2 min readBarbacoa2 min read
Mar 29, 2022Member-onlyOne Bag — A look at What’s ImportantLike everyone here in America, I have watched the footage of the Russian invasion of Ukraine with horror. I am stunned that a leader of any country is so backward and deranged in 2022 that they believe it is OK to invade another country. How would we react if Canada…Ukraine3 min readUkraine3 min read
Mar 21, 2022Member-onlyDating in the Lifestyle: Part 2 The PitfallsI thought I would follow up on the previous article about dating in the lifestyle. After all, dating can be an adventure. Here, I share more on how the search is going, pitfalls in dating apps, and other crazy dating experiences. Unfortunately, I’m a bit behind in my writing —…Fetish9 min readFetish9 min read
Dec 15, 2021Member-onlyRare BirdI wake to the melody I have sung in my dreams. A dream is only Whisper soft clouds Of indulgent thought In panoramic view. Longing for the rare bird, That can never be caged; Only admired From afar. The view from a distance Starts the chase – The wants and…Poetry2 min readPoetry2 min read
Nov 27, 2021Member-onlyPuzzle PiecesYou, I don’t understand. Maybe I’m not meant to; But the puzzle keeps Pulling, Tearing, In my mind. Your silence is deafening. Your time, limited.BDSM2 min readBDSM2 min read
